The problem with “stay-cations” is that they are really just about “staying” and not really much about “cationing.”
You stay home, cooking and cleaning and yelling at your kids, and then you say “I am on a “stay-cation!” and that’s supposed to change anything??
One good thing is that the weather was absolutely glorious this week – which was lovely, especially after Mr. Gaga and my brother worked 5 long days to put together our new playground!!
At the end of the week – I got to have an actual girls’ getaway – with my sister-in-law and mother at the Waldorf Astoria. I was looking forward to shopping, being pampered at Drybar and eating and drinking at amazing restaurants, like Le Cirque and Il Buco Alimentari e Vineria.
Life is great.
Only one problem.
My usual problem.
I have been able to sneak by with fashion choices during the past few years – that have kept me somewhat in style.
Mostly due to luck (thank you boyfriend blazer, Juicy Couture, UGGS, and ballet flats.)
It was like fashion magic that as soon as I was too weak and fat to wear a heel or a pant with a button, the styles changed to suit my needs.
It seems that the party is over.
Apparently while I was home wearing wifebeaters and flip-flops for 7 years, the rest of the world time-traveled to 1985.
I totally had not realized that we had gone back to the 80’s – and I needed clothes for my NYC stay.
“Where should I go? I don’t even know what to do, I am such an old weathered nerd….” I asked my BF.
“What is your damage, Gaga? Didn’t you blog about this a year ago and say you were going to Ann Taylor Loft?” she asked.
“Oh right….I never did that.”
This is always what happens to me. I get by with my t-shirts and jeans and then when I have to go somewhere I am in trouble.
So off I went to Forever 21 and H&M to get something cool and trendy.
The entire store was filled with 80’s fashions.
80’s fashions were hard to pull off in the actual 80’s when I was 10.
It is extremely hard to pull of now that I am
in my 30’s, fat, have a muffin top……older.
Let’s just say that when you want nothing more than to look like this……
If you are an old weathered housewife – it ends up looking like this……
Apparently women that are still occasionally asked when they are due – do not look good in skin-tight neon pink pants and half shirts.
I came home defeated wearing a new black jacket and more wifebeaters.
“What are you wearing?” asked Mr. Gaga.
” A jacket. It used to belong to Jimi Hendrix.” I replied.
“You bought a used jacket? What are we, poor?”
I decided I would just shop when I got to New York…. you know the land of skinny women who are on top of every trend.
That was a totally awesome idea!
My sister-in-law and I went to Saks first, thinking it wouldn’t be as absurd as Forever 21.
When we arrived I realized that Saks had time traveled to the 80’s as well. As I looked through the piles of colored neon pants, leggings with lace on the bottom and half shirts – I couldn’t believe my eyes. I think I even say a t-shirt on it that said “RELAX.”
“I feel like I have already been down this road.” I said with shock to my sister-in-law, as I looked through a pile of jelly bracelets.
Roads? Where we’re going, we don’t need roads.” she answered cryptically.
The store was filled with 80’s pants and I tried to narrow down my choices….
I asked a young man to help me choose something appropriate. You should wear these – he said picking up the hot pink pair of skinny jeans.
“I don’t think so…” I answered.
“You should listen to me – I have been here for 7 1/2 years…I’m no dummy.” he answered.
I politely declined.
I finally settled on a coral cropped pair and paired it with coral nails and lips. I considered a Swatch watch but felt it was too ridiculous and just picked up some feather earrings instead. We spent HOURS shopping and we finally had some trendy pieces to work with.
I picked up some Rubix Cubes and some Garbage Pail Kids for Sam and Michael and headed back to the hotel to get ready. We continued to enjoy our luxurious weekend of eating and drinking.
By the time I got home I was fully relaxed, completely comfortable with my new 80’s fashions and feeling very pampered.
I was thrust back to reality right when I came home to see filthy bedrooms with Lego pieces everywhere, laundry to the ceiling, and no food in the refrigerator.
I looked at Mr. Gaga who was watching a game.
“I don’t belong here, I feel it, don’t you think I feel it! I can’t do any of these vile things and I wouldn’t WANT to. Oh, my life is like death! My children are the spawn of hell, and you’re the devil. Oh God!”
He looked up at me and then looked back at the television.
So in honor of the fact that we have time-traveled to the 80’s I felt compelled to incorporate 6 movie quotes from the 80’s……
What are some of your favorite quote from the 80’s???