My blogging schedule is a little off this week due to my
ESCAPE!!!! romantic getaway, for my 10 year anniversary.
Last week I could barely think straight I was so riddled with fear and anxiety.
Once we left CT (86 degrees and sunny) and landed in Miami (Tropical Storm, torrential rain, 77 degrees) – I was happy to have arrived safely – but my anxiety was creeping up on me…..
Why did I leave my babies to sit in Florida in the rain?
Well the answer was quite simple really…….
It was for lots and lots of these……
But 10 years is a long time people – I mean we are not spring chickens.
So I just want to lay it out for you – for those of you who are spring chickens – how this all goes down when you are old and weathered.
5 Differences between 2011 trip to Miami and trip 10 years ago:
1 -All your bits and pieces aren’t where/what they used to be.
So when you are trying to be sexy and glamorous and your boobs and butt are sagging out a tankini – this doesn’t translate well. I swear, I have had an Italian ass/thigh situation my whole life, but after I had kids – it was like someone deflated my butt – it just kind of hangs there. And the boobs – forget it. Then of course the stomach that is not exactly washboard-esque and for added glory has wrinkled skin hanging off my belly button.
I am not 400 lbs. I want to clarify this – because my Italian father said – after I wrote this – “What the hell is wrong with you? Nobody knows what you look like and everyone is going to think you are obese with a moustache…..”
HOWEVER!!! There has been a lot of damage. Things (i.e. boobs, skin elasticity, ab muscles) have not weathered the storm.
2 – Your eyeballs just don’t work like they used to.
After having 4 martinis in the middle of the first day – I promptly passed out at 5 o’clock and my husband woke me up at 7:30. There was absolutely no way that I could have kept my eyeballs open past 5 pm.
My husband didn’t take a nap.
Guess who was falling asleep at dinner.
In our old age – we have to be very careful and strategic about drinking and staying awake – we just are not able to do what we used to do.
We could then be seen in the hotel lobby with toothpicks holding our eyes open, looking very cool and very young.
3 – Our digestive tracts ain’t what they used to be:
Though we forgot hair products and razors, we somehow managed to remember what’s important – and that is travel-size room spray.
Between the excessive drinking and delectable meals – our stomachs were basically on a rollercoaster ride that was too much for their old-age.
One night after dinner – we were going to have drinks in the hotel bar – and I had a sudden pain in my stomach.
“I think I am going to have an episode.” I said – which is my code word for any unpleasant digestive issues.
“Ok – I’ll come up with you and then we will come back down.” my husband said.
Yeah right. We both had to “digest” our food like a couple of eighty-year-olds, and then passed out with cups of Alka Seltzer sizzling on our night stands.
4 -Vacations used to make you feel better:
There is a lot more at stake when we are away from the kids now.
Small things to most – are now very important. I could often be heard saying or thinking some of the following sentences:
“I have to stay in the pool longer and enjoy it- this is the last time I will be in a body of water alone without someone hanging on me for like 5 years.”
“I should pass out and take a nap for 3 hours – just because I can – and I won’t be able to again until I am a senior citizen.”
“We can’t go back to the room yet – it’s only 12:15. Most of Miami is just coming out now…..hopefully these toothpicks will hold…….”
So what do you know – because we tried to do too much, we came home Monday night at 12:30 – exhausted!!! And the kids woke us up this morning – and it has been rough ever since.
It will take approximately 10-15 days to recover from this vacation.
5 – Mom jeans were invented for a reason:
Apparently I am too old to just go to Forever 21 and buy and wear whatever
slutty trendy outfit I want to….
At least that’s what my husband seemed to think when I rocked mini-skirts both nights of our trip – Uh – like EVERYONE else was!!!
“But you have 2 little boys!” he said hesitantly – when I saw my outfit.
Can you believe he said this??? Apparently I looked like Dina Lohan – but I didn’t care – So I am trying to dress young – so shoot me. This was one of my skirts ……
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Happy Anniversary to Mr. Gaga!!!
Mr. Gaga loves me so much that he has lived with me for 10 years despite the fact that I call him Mr. Gaga and apparently dress like a tart. If you love me as much could you please just click the banner below? Thank you !!!! xoxoxox Lady Goo Goo Gaga
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